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The work of interrupting the compulsive pattern itself. Nervous system regulation, loosening shame's grip, and building a life where the behavior isn't doing a job nothing else can do.
Private, direct, 1:1 work for men who've tried willpower, tried hiding it, tried quitting on their own — and are ready for something that actually works.
But the compulsive behavior patterns you're experiencing aren't technically addictions — and that matters, because the recovery-meeting, "one day at a time," white-knuckle approach isn't built for what's actually happening in your body.
What's actually happening: your nervous system learned to use sex or porn to regulate stress, numb shame, or fill something that's been missing for a long time. That's a pattern.
Most of my work is private, one-on-one, and tailored entirely to your situation.
No group shares. No workbooks that assume your story is the same as every other man's. Just direct work with me, starting with understanding what your behavior is actually doing for you — and building something better.
SEE HOW 1:1 SESSIONS WORK →The work of interrupting the compulsive pattern itself. Nervous system regulation, loosening shame's grip, and building a life where the behavior isn't doing a job nothing else can do.
Divorce. A marriage on the edge. Kids who know something's wrong. An identity built around hiding something. This is where men rebuild after the compulsive behavior has been addressed — or after it's been discovered.
The harder question that often comes last: what does healthy sexuality actually look like for you? This is where men learn to be present in their bodies and connected to a partner — without performance, without the old patterns pulling back in.
The credentials are on the About page. The one that matters here: compulsive sexual behavior is my area of focused practice. That focus itself is a credential.







No intake forms. No commitment. Just a conversation about what's going on and whether we're a fit.